I subscribe to a
weekly email from the
National Center for Biblical Parenting, and frequently enjoy what they have to offer. Their suggestion this week was, I thought, especially clever:
One
fun way to teach children to be servants is the "I Cut, You Pick" Rule.
It helps children who both want the last piece of cake, or plan to
split a chocolate bar. It simply goes like this. When children must
divide something between the two of them, ask one child if he would
rather cut or pick. The other alternative goes to the second child.
This plan motivates the person cutting to be as equal as possible.
The obvious beauty of this plan is that it gives the child a meaningful decision and a responsible action - both of which reinforce human dignity. This is one that I plan to put into practice with Elisabeth and a friend soon.
Becca: I hear she is a good eater AND sleeper! I am so happy for you and hope that it lasts a LONG time :)
- March 13, 2009 03:06PM